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Negative Conscious Language – <\/span>What Is the Language of Loneliness?<\/span><\/p>\n “I can do all this through him who gives me strength” <\/em>Philippians 4:13<\/p>\n By continuously using language like the statements below, you can actually create your own world of isolation, receiving the exact opposite response than you want. These self-defeating “I” statements focus selfishly on self-protection. They are wall building instead of bridge building, keeping you stuck in a state of loneliness.<\/span><\/p>\n Does any of the following statements that apply to you.<\/span><\/strong><\/em> <\/span><\/p>\n “I feel all alone.”<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I don’t believe anyone understands the way I feel.”<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I don’t really matter to anyone.”<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I don’t have any good qualities that draw people to me.”<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I don’t have anything to offer to a relationship.”<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I can’t seem to connect with other people.”<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I will never find anyone to love me.”<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I don’t feel like I fit in with anyone.”<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I’m tired of trying to make people like me. I always fail.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I’m empty on the inside.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I’m always on the outside.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I’m too messed up for anyone to like me or want to be around me.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I’m just a born loser.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I feel like I’ve been deserted.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I don’t deserve to be loved or to have friends.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n “I think I’m the only one who feels like this.”<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n