{"id":230137,"date":"2024-08-21T17:26:05","date_gmt":"2024-08-21T17:26:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/2024\/08\/21\/the-catholic-culture-podcast-144-the-obedience-paradox-in-marriage\/"},"modified":"2024-08-21T17:26:05","modified_gmt":"2024-08-21T17:26:05","slug":"the-catholic-culture-podcast-144-the-obedience-paradox-in-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/2024\/08\/21\/the-catholic-culture-podcast-144-the-obedience-paradox-in-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"The Catholic Culture Podcast: 144 &#8211; The Obedience Paradox in Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"date\">Oct 11, 2022<\/p>\n<p>St. Paul\u2019s admonition for wives to submit to their husbands as<br \/>\nthe Church submits to Christ (Ephesians 5) is one of the most<br \/>\nuncomfortable teachings for modern Catholics. But it\u2019s not just<br \/>\nobedience in marriage that moderns find objectionable\u2013and it\u2019s not<br \/>\njust liberals who can\u2019t stomach it. Across the political and<br \/>\nreligious spectrum, even among self-described traditionalists, we<br \/>\nfind all kinds of excuses to avoid obedience. Deeply embedded in<br \/>\nthe post-Enlightenment consciousness is the equation of authority<br \/>\nwith tyranny and obedience with slavery.<\/p>\n<p>Come to think of it, Scripture tells us that the issue of<br \/>\nauthority and obedience is fundamental to mankind\u2019s rupture with<br \/>\nGod throughout all history, beginning with the rebellion of Adam<br \/>\nand Eve. Satan tricked Eve into thinking God\u2019s command was a trick<br \/>\nto keep her down rather than a gift of love. Adam went along,<br \/>\nchoosing to please his wife rather than God, in a perversion of his<br \/>\nGod-given inclination toward union through gift. Ever since, both<br \/>\nmen and women have had a suspicious and guarded stance toward God\u2019s<br \/>\nauthority rather than a submissive and receptive one, while<br \/>\nironically dominating and manipulating others in the very way they<br \/>\nfeared God was doing to them.<\/p>\n<p>The primordial reality of authority as gift and obedience as<br \/>\nreceptivity, which Christ came to restore in nuptial union with His<br \/>\nChurch, is central to theologian Mary Stanford\u2019s new book, <em>The<br \/>\nObedience Paradox: Finding True Freedom in Marriage<\/em>. Drawing<br \/>\non Scripture, the theology of the body, and the whole Magisterial<br \/>\ntradition of the Church on marital obedience, Stanford offers not<br \/>\njust a defense of the traditional teaching, but a profound<br \/>\nillumination of how both wives and husbands can find true freedom<br \/>\nin submitting to God\u2019s design for what Pope Pius XI called \u201cthe<br \/>\norder of love\u201d in marriage, which is both mutual and<br \/>\nasymmetrical.<\/p>\n<p>Stanford\u2019s presentation will be liberating particularly for<br \/>\nthose open-hearted Catholics who, while wishing to be faithful to<br \/>\nChurch teaching, fear that reiterating this particular point of the<br \/>\nScriptural and Magisterial doctrine on marriage will just create an<br \/>\nopportunity for domination and abuse. Yet not only wives, and not<br \/>\nonly married couples, but all Catholics can learn from how<br \/>\nobedience is lived in marriage, and see that obedient receptivity<br \/>\nis at the core of what it means to be a human person.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Links<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mary Stanford, <em>The Obedience Paradox: Finding True Freedom<br \/>\nin Marriage<\/em> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.osvcatholicbookstore.com\/product\/the-obedience-paradox-finding-true-freedom-in-marriage\"><br \/>\nhttps:\/\/www.osvcatholicbookstore.com\/product\/the-obedience-paradox-finding-true-freedom-in-marriage<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Pope Pius XI on marriage:\u00a0<em>Casti connubii<\/em> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vatican.va\/content\/pius-xi\/en\/encyclicals\/documents\/hf_p-xi_enc_19301231_casti-connubii.html\"><br \/>\nhttps:\/\/www.vatican.va\/content\/pius-xi\/en\/encyclicals\/documents\/hf_p-xi_enc_19301231_casti-connubii.html<\/a><\/p>\n<p>This podcast is a production of CatholicCulture.org. 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