{"id":293173,"date":"2024-10-02T19:12:48","date_gmt":"2024-10-02T19:12:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/2024\/10\/02\/are-your-relationships-codependent\/"},"modified":"2024-10-02T19:12:48","modified_gmt":"2024-10-02T19:12:48","slug":"are-your-relationships-codependent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/2024\/10\/02\/are-your-relationships-codependent\/","title":{"rendered":"Are Your Relationships Codependent?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"_04xlpA direction-ltr align-center para-style-body\" style=\"text-align: left\"><span class=\"JsGRdQ\" style=\"color: #000000\">Common Codependent Relationships&nbsp;<\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"_04xlpA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\" style=\"text-align: left\"><span class=\"JsGRdQ\" style=\"color: #000000\">In the examples below, the first person is dependent on the second person and the second person is actually the codependent one in the relationship &#8230; needing to be needed.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"_04xlpA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\" style=\"text-align: left\"><span class=\"JsGRdQ\" style=\"color: #000000\">A wife is excessively helpless around her husband &#8230; and the husband needs his wife to stay helpless.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"_04xlpA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\" style=\"text-align: left\"><span style=\"color: #000000\">A husband is excessively needy in how he relates to his wife &#8230; and the wife needs him to stay needy.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"_04xlpA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\" style=\"text-align: left\"><span style=\"color: #000000\">A student is excessively tied to a teacher &#8230; and the teacher needs the student to stay tied to him\/her.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"_04xlpA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\" style=\"text-align: left\"><span style=\"color: #000000\">A child is excessively pampered by the parent &#8230; and the parent needs the child to stay in need of pampering.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"_04xlpA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\" style=\"text-align: left\"><span style=\"color: #000000\">An employee is excessively entangled with an employer &#8230; and the employer needs the employee to stay entangled.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"_04xlpA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\" style=\"text-align: left\"><span style=\"color: #000000\">A friend is excessively fixated on another friend &#8230; and that person needs the friend to stay fixated.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"_04xlpA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\" style=\"text-align: left\"><span style=\"color: #000000\">A counselee is excessively clinging to a counselor &#8230; and the counselor needs the counselee to continue clinging.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"_04xlpA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\" style=\"text-align: left\"><span style=\"color: #000000\">A disciple is excessively dependent on a discipler &#8230; and the discipler needs the disciple to stay dependent.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"_04xlpA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\" style=\"text-align: left\"><span style=\"color: #000000\">A spiritual seeker is excessively leaning on a spiritual leader &#8230; and the leader needs the seeker to continue leaning.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"_04xlpA direction-ltr align-center para-style-body\" style=\"text-align: left\"><span class=\"JsGRdQ\" style=\"color: #000000\">When we have a misplaced dependency, we have a misplaced trust. We are excessively trusting in the relationship to provide more than God intended. The Psalms describe a misplaced trust&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"_04xlpA direction-ltr align-center para-style-body\"><span style=\"color: #000000\"><em><span class=\"JsGRdQ\">&ldquo;Some trust in chariots and some in horses,&nbsp;<\/span><span class=\"JsGRdQ\">but we trust in the name of the&nbsp;Lordour God.&rdquo;&nbsp; <\/span><\/em><span class=\"JsGRdQ\">(Psalm 20:7<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.womenoffaith.com\/blog\/are-your-relationships-codependent\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Common Codependent Relationships&nbsp; In the examples below, the first person is dependent on the second person and the second person is actually the codependent one<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":293174,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[188],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-293173","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-religion"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/293173","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=293173"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/293173\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/293174"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=293173"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=293173"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newhampshiredigitalnews.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=293173"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}